On Dear Black Gay Men Podcast, I’ve spoken with singles, married men, men who are dating around, men who date with intention and every other kind of man that exists. I want to believe I’m dating with intention—that I’ve applied the lessons of my past relationships to make me the best possible bachelor for my next guy.
The biggest difference between the men in relationship that I’ve had on the show and the singles is two-fold: (1) our patience, and (2) how focused we can be on making someone else feel good. When you have both components, winning in dating is all but certain.
But the gotcha is, from my very single vantage point, it’s hard to know if you’re walking face first into a blessing or delusion. How do we know that we’re on the right path with the right guy.
This post is dedicated to starting to answer just that. From the countless conversations and situations I’ve been in, how do we know that this dating situaition is moving in the right direction.
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