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Marco Mays's avatar

I always be leery and excited at the same time for events and at events like this.

I be excited to explore my kinks and pleasures with hopes of meeting more people of color in the fetish community. However, I am met way too often with me becoming the fetish or kink itself for our caucasian counterparts.

I totally agree with the “I don’t mind the objectification” piece because I know it’s a kink aspect but when the environment makes you feel like the hanging ham at the meat market it tends to dampen my kinks and fetishes. Yes, that could happen at (Black) bars but way more than it should at (White) bars.

I am in agreement in the logistics of an event like this must be structured out a bit. Otherwise, it would be very awkward to disrupt an environment that was created for people to be on their knees and pants down!! It would be like being in the swing at Flex and the lights come on for a bake sale pop-up! We have snicker-doodles every one!! 😂😂😂

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Jai The Gentleman's avatar

The “bake sale pop up” took me out, but that was totally the vibe. And I may or may not have been someone caught with my dick in someone’s mouth when the lights came on.

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Marco Mays's avatar

Oh no judgment here!! They sell “blow pops” at the bake sale also!! Bringing joy to warm mouths are acts of kindness!!

Golden Rule: No Throat Left Behind!! 😂😂

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Manuel Esparza's avatar

Mmm

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Diamond Boi's avatar

same!

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Jai The Gentleman's avatar

lol. Which part?

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Diamond Boi's avatar

head in the club lol

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Jai The Gentleman's avatar

lol. I figured that was the part that did it. Lol

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