I am what the gworls would call a “soft top”.
I like to do all the traditionally masculine things, but I also am fully a butch queen. I haven’t been fucked in years and don’t have a whole lot of interest in being fucked, but I would for the right person as long as they know how to handle my delicate flower.
Fun Fact: someone once called it a slut with my dick but a prude with my hole.
1. The Top Drought (00:00:00)
2. Church Announcements: The Blog and a Hookup Story (00:01:52)
3. Understanding Bottom’s Non-Verbal Cues (00:08:52)
4. Critiquing Queer Culture and Fetishization (00:41:52)
A caller named Andy from Boston and the host discuss the stigma and shame associated with being a "bottom" in the gay community.
5. The Fetishization of Masculinity (00:22:52)
6. The Evolution of Queer Identities (00:55:14)
7. The Dangers of Narrow Definitions (00:30:02)
The host and a caller named Andy discuss the importance of being authentic and how forcing people to be with those they aren't attracted to leads to disappointment.
8. The Four Kinds of Vers (01:16:19)
The host introduces his personal "spectrum of verse" and explains four different kinds:
Preferential verse (people who can do anything but prefer one role), 50-50 verse (people who want an equal balance), any way the wind blows verse (people who are fulfilled either way), and fuck my mind and you can have my body (people who are willing to do whatever their partner wants).
